Whining About Your Own, Others',

People Are Terrified Of Other People Or Difficult Projects Because They Tell Themselves That They Could Fail Or Be Rejected. Failure Can Lead To Sorrow, Regret, Frustration And Annoyance-all Healthy Feelings Without Which People Couldn't Exist.

Being Assertive Does Not Mean Attacking Or Ignoring Others Feelings. It Means That You Are Willing To Hold Up For Yourself Fairly-without Attacking Others.

People Have Motives And Thoughts Of Which They Are Unaware.

Whining About Your Own, Others', Or The World's Failings Is A Main Element In What We Usually Call Neurosis.

And Just As Two Wrongs Don't Make A Right, Rage Against Offenders Is Probably The Worst Way To Try To Correct Them.