They're Making Me Out To

I'm A Hopeless Romantic And Passionate Person When It Comes To Love.

It Was Easy To Blame Other People For Treating Me In Ways I Didn't Like, But Now I Was Seeing That I Was The One At Fault. The Only Way You Can Be Mistreated Is By Allowing Yourself To Be Mistreated, And That Was Something I Did Over And Over Again. Somehow, I Needed To Find That Glimmer Of Self-respect, Buried Deep Inside, That Would Allow Me To Say: I Am Never Going To Let That Happen To Me Again. I Needed To Learn How To Stand Up For Myself In A Different Way, But I Didn't Know How.

The Best Part Of Having Two Babies At Once, A Son And A Daughter, Is Mostly Everything. You're Just Having That Feeling Of Love Inside You All The Time And Motherhood Is Such A Fulfilling Place To Be. I Kind Of Wish It Would Have Happened To Me Earlier In My Life.

We Had Our Moment [with Marc Anthony] In The Third Or Fourth Year That We Were Married, When We Did Everything Together: We Did "el Cantante," We Did The Tour, We Made All The Music Together, He Produced My Album [2007's Spanish-language "como Ama Una Mujer"]. That Was A Really Beautiful Time For Us.

Things Don't Always Turn Out Exactly The Way You Want Them To Be And You Feel Disappointed. You Are Not Always Going To Be The Winner. That's When You Have To Stop And Figure Out Why Things Happened The Way They Did And What You Can Do To Change Them.