You Give Your Power Away

Pain Happens, But Suffering Is Optional. When Pain Comes, Make Use Of The Experience, But Do Not Wallow In It. When You Accidentally Place Your Finger In A Flame, It Is Supposed To Hurt Just Long Enough For You To Pull It Out. If You Think There Is Value In Keeping It There, You Will Be A Crispy Critter. Pain Is A Minor Element Of Life, Unless You Are Indulging It. Then It Becomes Suffering. Get The Message And Then Get On With Your Life, Which Is Far More About Joy Than Sorrow.

Nothing In The Outer World Makes You Feel Any Way. You Decide What You Want To Feel, And Then Use Outer People And Events As Permission Slips To Execute Your Feeling Agenda.

You Cannot Judge What Should Bring Others Joy, And Others Cannot Judge What Should Bring You Joy.

For Everyone You Create To Be Dependent On You, You Are Equally Dependent On Them. Neither Relationship Is Healthy.

It Takes A Lot Of Courage To Release The Familiar And Seemingly Secure, To Embrace The New. But There Is No Real Security In What Is No Longer Meaningful. There Is More Security In The Adventurous And Exciting, For In Movement There Is Life, And In Change There Is Power.