The Longer We Hate, The

Don't Do It Quickly, But Don't Wait Too Long... If We Wait Too Long To Forgive, Our Rage Settles In And Claims Squatter's Rights To Our Souls.

Any Moment That Opens Us Up To The Reality That Life Is Good Is A Parable Of The Supreme End For Which We Were Made.

The First And Often Only Person To Be Healed By Forgiveness Is The Person Who Does The Forgiveness... When We Genuinely Forgive, We Set A Prisoner Free And Then Discover That The Prisoner We Set Free Was Us.

Human Sexuality Includes More Than Hormones, Organs, And Orgasms; It Runs Through The Psychic And Spiritual Ranges Of Our Lives. We Experience Our Sexuality On The Spiritual Level As A Yearning For Another Person. We Want To Reach Out And Stretch Ourselves Into The Depths Of Another. We Want To Bring The Other Person Into The Orbit Of Our Deepest Selves. We Want To Probe Into The Mystery Of The Other.

Once We Have Forgiven, However, We Get A New Freedom To Forget. This Time Forgetting Is A Sign Of Health; It Is Not A Trick To Avoid Spiritual Surgery. We Can Forget Because We Have Been Healed. But Even If It Is Easier To Forget After We Forgive, We Should Not Make Forgetting A Test Of Our Forgiving. The Test Of Forgiving Lies With Healing The Lingering Pain Of The Past, Not With Forgetting The Past Has Ever Happened.