The Best Kind Of Men

The Dream Of Romantic Love Is Taken More Seriously In North America Than It Is Anywhere Else In The World, Which Is Why We Believe In Fidelity And Why We Believe In Infidelity As Well. It Is Also, Of Course, What Makes Our Divorce Rate As High As It Is. Falling In Love At First Sight And Instant Gratification Are Part Of The World In Which We Live, So There Are People Who Believe Adamantly In Fidelity. They Just Don't Believe In It For Long.

Feelings Take You Into Uncharted Territory From Time To Time It's True, But You Almost Always Benefit From The Journey One Way Or The Other. We Tend To Think Of The Rational As A Higher Order, But It Is The Emotional That Marks Our Lives.

Friends Are People Who Help You Be More Yourself, More The Person You Are Intended To Be.

We Marry To Grow Up, To Escape Our Parents And To Inherit Our Share Of The World, Not Knowing Who We Are And Who We Will Become, So It Is Left To Marriage To Make It Clear Which Ones Of Us Are Growing In The Same Directions And Which Are Ships Meant To Have Passed In The Night.

There Are Really Only Two Ways To Approach Life - As Victim Or As Gallant Fighter - And You Must Decide If You Want To Act Or React, Deal Your Own Cards Or Play With A Stacked Deck. And If You Don't Decide Which Way To Play With Life, It Always Plays With You.