Control Is An Illusion.

Choosing To Take Responsibility For Ourselves And For The Consequences Our Choices Create Looks Like Hard Work, But It Really Sets Us Free.

Letting Go Means We Stop Trying To Force Outcomes And Make People Behave. It Means We Give Up Resistance To The Way Things Are, For The Moment. It Means We Stop Trying To Do The Impossible-controlling That Which We Cannot-and Instead, Focus On What Is Possible-which Usually Means Taking Care Of Ourselves. And We Do This In Gentleness, Kindness, And Love, As Much As Possible.

We Need To Set Goals For Ourselves. Start Today...if You Don't Have Any Goals, Make Your First Goal Getting Some Goals. You Probably Won't Start Living Happily Ever After, But You May Start Living Happily, Purposefully, And With Gratitude...goals Are Gratitude In Action. They Give Us The Opportunity To Build On What We Already Have. While Achieving Goals Can Be A Lengthy Process, We Can Learn To Be Grateful For Each Stage In The Process Of Setting And Meeting Goals.

The New Year Stands Before Us, Like A Chapter In A Book, Waiting To Be Written. We Can Help Write That Story By Setting Goals.

Be Patient. Relax And Trust. Let Go. Then, Let Go Some More.