Life Is Like Dancing. If

The Truth Is Like A Scalpel. The Truth Is Painful.

If You Live In A Past Dream, You Don't Enjoy What Is Happening Right Now Because You Will Always Wish It To Be Different Than It Is. There Is No Time To Miss Anyone Or Anything Because You Are Alive. Not Enjoying What Is Happening Right Now Is Living In The Past And Being Only Half Alive. This Leads To Self Pity, Suffering And Tears.

Letting Go Of The Past Means That You Can Enjoy The Dream That Is Happening Right Now.

In Your Whole Life Nobody Has Ever Abused You More Than You Have Abused Yourself. And The Limit Of Your Self-abuse Is Exactly The Limit That You Will Tolerate From Someone Else. If Someone Abuses You A Little More Than You Abuse Yourself, You Will Probably Walk Away From That Person. But If Someone Abuses You A Little Less Than You Abuse Yourself, You Will Probably Stay In The Relationship And Tolerate It Endlessly.

We Are So Well Trained That We Are Our Own Domesticator. We Are An Autodomesticated Animal. We Can Now Domesticate Ourselves According To The Same Belief System We Were Given, And Using The Same System Of Punishment And Reward. We Punish Ourselves When We Don't Follow The Rules According To Our Belief System; We Reward Ourselves When We Are The "good Boy" Or "good Girl".