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We Also Don't Always Know What We Want. And In Those Cases It Can Actually Make Us Worse Off Because It's Actually Easier To Figure Out What You Want And To Figure Out How The Options Differ If You Have About A Handful Of Them Than If You Have A Hundred Of Them.

So On The One Hand In School You're Teachers Are Constantly Telling You That You Can Be Whatever It Is You Want To Be As Long As You Put Your Mind And Heart To It, And Yet At The Same Time I Was Also Getting The Clear Message Of, Well, What Can You Do Really?

A Clear Right Answer And The Opportunity To Change The Options? This Is The Chooser’s Dream.

A Chess Master Can Keep Track Of More Choices Than The Number Of Stars In The Galaxy Within An Instant, But These Are People That Have Truly Learned And Mastered The Choices That They Have And How To Deal With Those Choices Over A Very, Very Long Period Of Training, So Essentially What They're Really Doing Is Ruling Out All The Irrelevant Choices And Only Zeroing In On The Most Relevant, Useful Choices At The Moment.

So Most Of The Time When We Are Confronted By More, Rather Than A Few, Choices We're Often Novices And So We Don't Really Know How To Differentiate These Various Options.