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That's The Trouble With The Conventional Doctors. They Always Say, 'how Does It Work?' But Often There Isn't Any Neat Little Answer...something Simply Works...we Don't Really Know How It Works. We Say We Do. We Know One Or Two Things We Can See And Measure.

The Foundation For Our Self-image Is Grounded In The First Three Years Of Life. It Comes From Our Major Caretaker's Mirroring.

Our Sadness Is An Energy We Discharge In Order To Heal. …sadness Is Painful. We Try To Avoid It. Actually Discharging Sadness Releases The Energy Involved In Our Emotional Pain. To Hold It In Is To Freeze The Pain Within Us. The Therapeutic Slogan Is That Grieving Is The ‘healing Feeling.’

Evil Is A Source Of Moral Intelligence In The Sense That We Need To Learn From Our Shadow, From Our Dark Side, In Order To Be Good.

The Drivenness In Any Addiction Is About The Ruptured Self, The Belief That One Is Flawed As A Person. The Content Of The Addiction, Whether It Is Alcoholism Or Work, Is An Attempt At An Intimate Relationship. The Workaholic With Her Work Or The Alcoholic With His Booze Are Having A Love Affair. Each Alters Mood To Avoid The Feeling Of Loneliness And Hurt In The Underbelly Of Shame.