I Have A Big Problem

We Found That When People Put This Issue On The Table, It Turns Out That Men Acknowledge The Issue, And Employers And Employees Can Work Out Solutions Just As Working Mothers Do.

And So, Little By Little, I Gradually Divested Myself Of Pretty Nearly All Of The Guest Conducting I Used To Do, Because I Was At The Same Time Working In The Places Like The Met, Where I Could Work In This Sort Of Depth.

Its Just That, When The Orchestra Look At Me, I Want Them To See A Completely Involved Person Who Reflects What We Rehearsed, And Whose Function Is To Make It Possible For Them To Do It.

It Wasn't That I Ever Knew I'd Be At The Met For 20 Years, Or 30 Years, Or 40 Years, Or Anything Like That

It Was Just That We Had This Phenomenal Honeymoon Relationship That Just Kept On Going.