Happiness Can Be Defined, In

The Struggle Comes When We Sense A Gap Between The Clock And The Compass - When What We Do Doesn't Contribute To What Is Most Important In Our Lives.

If I Really Want To Improve My Situation, I Can Work On The One Thing Over Which I Have Control-myself. I Can Stop Trying To Shape Up My Wife And Can Work On My Own Weaknesses. I Can Focus An Being A Great Marriage Partner, A Source Of Unconditional Love And Support. Hopefully, My Wife Will Feel The Power Of Proactive Example And Respond In Kind. But, Whether She Does Or Doesn't, The Most Positive Way I Can Influence My Situation Is To Work On Myself, On My Being.

Some People Achieve The Top Of The Ladder And Only Then Realise It Was Standing Against The Wrong Wall.

The Proactive Approach To A Mistake Is To Acknowledge It Instantly, Correct And Learn From It. This Literally Turns A Failure Into A Success.

We Simply Assume That The Way We See Things Is The Way They Really Are Or The Way They Should Be. And Our Attitudes And Behaviors Grow Out Of These Assumptions.