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As Carrie Fisher Once Said In A Film, Everyone Thinks They Have Good Taste And A Sense Of Humour.

And Then There Was Him, The Long And Painful Love Of Her Life.

I Wish I Could Be Hard And Cynical. That I Could Take Things Slowly, Not Give Too Much Of Myself, Because I'd Be So Frightened Of Getting Hurt That There Wouldn't Be Any Other Way. But No. Every Time I Meet Someone I Dive In Headfirst, Showering Them With Love And Attention, And Hoping That This Time They're Going To Be Different.

It's All Well And Good Saying You Avoid Pain By Avoiding Relationships, But What About The Wonderful Things You're Avoiding As Well? What About The Joy And The Intimacy And The Trust That Come With Finding Someone You Love?

It's About Thinking That Being Blonde And Slim And Perfect Will Automatically Bring You Happiness, And Then Discovering That Life Is Full Of As Many Disappointments As There Were Before.