By Not Caring Too Much

People Are Terrified Of Other People Or Difficult Projects Because They Tell Themselves That They Could Fail Or Be Rejected. Failure Can Lead To Sorrow, Regret, Frustration And Annoyance - All Healthy, Negative Feelings Without Which People Couldn't Exist. But Then They Add, "i Absolutely Must Succeed And Must Be Loved By Significant Persons, And If I Don't, It's Terrible And I'm No Good." Those Are Irrational Beliefs. As Long As People Keep Them, They'll Be Terrified Of Life And Will Put Themselves Down When They Get Rejected.

I'm Very Happy. I Like My Work And I Like The Various Aspects Of It - Going Around The World, Teaching The Gospel According To St. Albert - I Like That. And Seeing Clients, Doing Group Therapy, Writing Books.

The More Sinful And Guilty A Person Tends To Feel, The Less Chance There Is That He Will Be A Happy, Healthy, Or Law-abiding Citizen. He Will Become A Compulsive Wrong-doer.

For That Again, Is What All Manner Of Religion Essentially Is: Childish Dependency.

Neurosis Is Just A High-class Word For Whining.